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So you have arrived on my webpage, either by chance or because you were looking for some Relational Psychotherapy or looking to learn something about Non Duality.My work is Relationship focused, using the therapeutic relationship as the healing ground for all of life's problems and challenges.
Most of life's suffering is caused by splits and misunderstandings.Dualties.
Relational Psychotherapy reminds us that all of life is interelated and non dual..
One of the most destructive splits is to be focused on what might happen in the future or to be stuck in patterns that were more appropriately true for sometime in our personal and collective histories.Essentially this is part fantasy, part story because it is not based on the direct experince of that which is present here and now.
Where you are right now in this very moment, is always the right place.The truth.
Because, there really is no other place to be.
Now is the only place to be.
If you are looking to make changes in your life the good news is that by being here reading this page, those changes have already begun. There is really very little else you need to do. Life is constant change. This is the next part of your life changing and unfolding, right here right now before all of your body senses.
The changes you are seeking are in process now.
Maybe you are currently suffering, lost or desperately in need or simply wanting to improve the quality of your life or find happiness or learn something about the nature of your self or about a spiritual search or simply want to sort you life out.Well, here’s the the good news
Whatever has happened to you in your life or is happening to you now-, is not all your fault!You are the sum total of a whole lifes conditioning and have always done the best you could have done given the “conditons of the moment.”.I am sure you have made mistakes.That is there have been times when you mis-took what you thought you had intended to take.but that two was part of your conditioning.
And some slightly more challenging news- there are things in life you will not be able to change.One of the greatest and most beautiful challenges in life is to accept life as it is.This can be extremely difficult and painful, especially if we carry around that huge sack of conditioned expectation.
Life is as it is.This will always be so
Change happens and it seems we can play a part in the continous flow of now.But it is only a part and any changes you want in your life will only you happen if the”conditions” are all in place..Two of those conditions are support and practice.The support is what is offered here on this website by either:
Relational Psychotherapy or Relational Counselling or simply meeting in a moment of truth.